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When almost all your friends on Facebook are from the Army,
you know it's time to go.

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Pictorial History

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Before I talk about other things in life (sorry other things have to make way first), TA DAH THESE ARE MY GRADUATION SHOOT PHOTOS!

WARNING: THIS IS AN EXTREMELY LONG POST.
REALLY DAMN LONG.
Come on, it's six years, what do you expect.
报章报导咩？




This post will be a very graphic journey of my past few years, which I have to put a full stop to and move on. It's time to make ends meet, if not I may end up not having enough income to buy LiHo.
YES so I brought le bae Pearl to do photoshoot for me all over the island—it must have been really tiring for her to drag that heavy camera around in this extremely hot weather. 
Thanks bae, you’re the best.




These places hold very special meaning to me in my formative years. Oh wait, am I allowed to use the word “formative” still? 这样老了 probably not right? Ok whatever, my point is these locations are important to me because I can never be who I am today without being there at some point in my life. I hope you get what I mean, because I think there is …
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Sincerity. Selflessness. Solidarity

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What does this three words mean to you at all? When the S House IC asked me what S could have stood for, I came up with these three words because it was like “duh” words people use when they praise each other (now you know that when people end off their letters with “Yours sincerely” 全都骗人的啦谁要跟你 sincere，只是 sincerely 等你快点 reply 他罢了）


Now in retrospect, after Arts Camp 2018 has ended, I returned to these three words on the Dictionary.com:

SINCERITY:
freedom from deceit, hypocrisy, or duplicity; probity in intention or in communicating; earnestness.
SELFLESSNESS:
having little or no concern for oneself, especially with regard to fame, position, money, etc.; unselfish.
SOLIDARITY:
union or fellowship arising from common responsibilities and interests, as between members of a group or between classes, peoples, etc.community of feelings, purposes, etc.community of responsibilities and interests.
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There were two Orientation Camps that made a great impact on my life—Arts …
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My time is up (2): 苛求

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Okay many people has been bugging for my second blog post. Honestly I think it is not very nice if I publish something and it causes a big woohah before the next JCRC is elected. SO I WAIT. 这一天，终于来了。

Today I am gonna talk about the perfectionist behaviour I have. Many people think perfectionists must be damn atas. YOU ARE WRONG HAHAHA. Observe your friends carefully lah:

You can drink three towers of beer, spur vulgarities in 4 dialects and skip all your lectures and still be a perfectionist. WHY?

According to Wikipedia:
Perfectionism, in psychology, is a personality trait characterized by a person's striving for flawlessness and setting high performance standards, accompanied by critical self-evaluations and concerns regarding others' evaluations.

In its maladaptive form, perfectionism drives people to attempt to achieve an unattainable ideal, while their adaptive perfectionism can sometimes motivate them to reach their goals. In the end, they derive pleasure from doing so. Whe…
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